Dr. Pandora Giles
BSc (Hons), DECPsy, FHEA
I am an Educational and Child Psychologist who provides psychological support to parents of children of all ages.Here are some of the common areas that I talk about with parents and carers:
Managing your child’s Special Educational Needs or Disabilities (SEND) at home.
Your relationship with your child, including managing their emotions and behaviour.
Challenges to daily routines like eating, sleeping or toileting.
Managing times of change such as becoming a parent, your child starting a new school or parental separation.
The experience of being a parent.
The differences in parenting styles between two parents.
About Me
I am an Educational and Child Psychologist with over twenty years experience of working with families. I have a particular interest in using my psychological skills to support parents. This began as a professional interest which was deepened when I became a parent myself. I provide psychological support to parents and carers of children, including those with Special Educational Needs and Disabilities (SEND).I also practice as an Educational and Child Psychologist, working in schools for an inner London local authority. I am an academic tutor on an Educational and Child Psychology Doctoral training programme, an editor of a professional periodical and a published author.
Doctorate in Educational and Child Psychology from UCL
Certificate in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) with Children and Young People from UCL/Anna Freud Centre
Bachelor of Science in Psychology from The University of Manchester
Registered Practitioner Psychologist with the HCPC (PYL27048)
Enhanced DBS
Fellow of the Higher Education Academy
My Approach
I provide a space for parents to talk about their experience of parenting using consultation and coaching. My work is with you, as the parent, rather than with your child. I listen to your concerns and we focus on your priorities.The focus can be on action: we come up with new approaches for you to try with your child. Other times the focus is on reflection: making sense of your situation and experiences.The experience of parenting is different for everyone and so I start by understanding your beliefs and values related to parenting. I draw on cognitive behavioural approaches, solution-focused thinking and narrative psychology.
On occasion I signpost parents to other services. It might be that the involvement needed is more to do with your child rather than talking about parenting, in which case I would signpost you to your school/nursery or local Educational Psychology Service. If it seems that you would benefit from a talking therapy, we can talk about what sort of therapy you may want to seek.
Testimonials
“At first I was very low, it was too overwhelming but you were there. Now I’m feeling good. You genuinely try to understand that everyone's situation is different.”
“It's been really helpful as I’ve been able to reflect on being a mum and now I can separate that from my past.”
“I have given feedback to professionals to listen a bit more previously – you felt different, you really listened and helped me understand how I feel.”
“He's using the toilet now, no nappies.”
“You helped me come to terms with things and feel calmer. I feel better about communicating with professionals - I'm not frightened now.”
“I love your perspective on child development.”
“You being a psychologist means you have experience with people so for you to tell me I'm not alone, it makes me feel like I'm not an alien. What a person can give you from their mouth is different to what you read in a book.”
“You suggested we try certain strategies, things we didn't even think of.”
“He's giving more attention now; before there was none. When I sing he gives eye contact.”
“It worked! Mealtimes aren't stressful anymore. He's more willing to try food now. He's more relaxed. I'm so pleased with the progress - it's amazing!”
“I'm on the same page now as my husband.”
“He's calmed down more. He talks more like an older child. Of all the people I've talked to in my life you've been the best. You really know how to talk to and listen to people. My shoulders are relaxing now.”
Fees
Each session lasts up to one hour and costs £120. I may be able to offer lower fees if needed. Fees can be discussed in an introductory call.I suggest a minimum of two sessions and a maximum of 12. Sessions are conducted online via Google Meet.Payments are made prior to each session and I accept debit card, Apple Pay or bank transfer.
Contact
To see if my support is a good fit for you I offer a free introductory call.If you would like to book an introductory call please get in touch using the contact form below or email [email protected]
Privacy Notice
© Pandora Giles 2024
Privacy Notice
Last updated 16th September 2024
This privacy notice explains how I collect and use your personal information as part of the service I provide.
Contact
Any queries regarding your personal information should be emailed to: [email protected]
What information I collect, use and why
I may collect or use the following personal information to ensure that the service I provide is appropriate for you and your family:
Names and contact details for parents/carers.
An understanding of family relationships and your experiences as a parent.
Names of children, their gender and their dates of birth.
Information about each child relating to their strengths and needs, including their Special Educational Needs or Disabilities (SEND).
Lawful bases and data protection rights
Under UK data protection law, I must have a “lawful basis” for collecting and using your personal information. There is a list of possible lawful bases in the UK GDPR. You can also find out more about lawful bases on the ICO’s website.Which lawful basis I rely on may affect your data protection rights which are in brief set out below.
You can find out more about your data protection rights and the exemptions which may apply on the ICO’s website:
Your right of access - You have the right to ask me for copies of your personal information. You can request other information such as details about where I get personal information from and who I share personal information with. There are some exemptions which means you may not receive all the information you ask for. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to rectification - You have the right to ask me to correct or delete personal information you think is inaccurate or incomplete. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to erasure - You have the right to ask me to delete your personal information. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to restriction of processing - You have the right to ask me to limit how we can use your personal information. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to object to processing - You have the right to object to the processing of your personal data. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to data portability - You have the right to ask that I transfer the personal information you gave me to another organisation, or to you. You can read more about this right here.
Your right to withdraw consent – When I use consent as our lawful basis you have the right to withdraw your consent at any time. You can read more about this right here.
My lawful bases for the collection and use of your information
Consent - by completing the Introductory Questionnaire or this website's contact form, you have given permission for me to collect your personal information. All of your data protection rights may apply, however as you will have already completed the questionnaire or contact form you will no longer have the right to object. You do have the right to withdraw your consent at any time however, as well as to view the information I have stored about you and for it to be deleted.
Legitimate interests – I am collecting or using your information because it benefits you or your child, without causing an undue risk of harm to anyone. All of your data protection rights may apply, except the right to portability. It is important for me to collect personal information so that I am able to understand your situation and provide support.